It’s no surprise that my love of reading as a child has turned into a love of writing. My one regret is that I waited so long to become an author. I feel like I have a lot of catching up to do.
Speaking of catching up, my wife and I had very little luck having children early in our marriage. We adopted after 15 years of marriage and then, in 2008, after 23 years of marriage, we welcomed our first infant into the world. My wife had a very healthy pregnancy for a woman in her mid-forties and we welcomed a 9-pound baby girl into the world. This event is one that has solidified our family and has been one of the best events of my life.
Our little girl is ten now and she is maturing in her reading very quickly. She has also caught onto the fact that I write books. She has been to author events with me and has been bitten by the writing bug. I couldn’t be happier.
I also have a two-year-old granddaughter that loves to be read to and loves to scribble in notebooks (fingers crossed).
A couple of years ago, my daughter came to an author event that I was participating in and brought one of my books with her and asked me to sign it. She wanted me to sign it with ‘Don Massenzio’ and then put ‘Daddy’ in parentheses. I nearly choked up when she came to me one morning and said she read one of my short stories and really liked it. The story was Lucy’s Christmas Miracle – a story about a dog named Lucy that protects a runaway child. I had a cover designed for this story and the graphic artist had never seen my daughter, but the cover he produced depicted a little girl that looked eerily like her.
Also, two years ago, we collaborated on her very first children’s book, The Scary Tower of Doom. I had to talk her out of her original title, The Evil Tower of Death, and we had to tone down the people getting eaten by dragons. She has participated at book signings and has successfully sold out her print inventory several times. She has another book in the works, but this one is a longer chapter book.
As she finishes up 5th grade and heads into 6th, I’m doing everything I can to encourage her writing. Just because I started late with my own writing ventures doesn’t mean that she can’t be an early starter. I always use the example of my niece who had a book published as a child and is now a well-respected high school English teacher.
In 2nd greade, we started integrating writing with her school work. Her teacher gives her spelling and vocabulary words each week. We’ve taken her list of words and I’ve asked her to write a story using the words she was assigned. She has enjoyed this and worte several little stories.
In school she has a writing notebook and she has been diligently writing stories all year. She approached me the other day and asked if we can turn her notebook into a real book of children’s stories over the summer. Of course, I was very enthusiastic about helping her do this. It should be fun and I can’t wait to see her face when she holds that first printed book in her hand with her name on it.
When you think of leaving your children a legacy, it doesn’t have to be financial. If you can inspire them to do something like reading or writing, you have succeeded as a parent. Studies have proven that avid readers are smarter and more successful. They also make better learners. The world is a competitive place and if I can instill these literary habits in my daughter, I will be more confident about her future.
So, my fellow authors with children, take the time to inspire them and lead by example. Your children will grow up to be better people and you could not ask for a better legacy.
I agree 100%. I’ve dedicated my crime thriller BIG WHITE LIES to my son Keegan, in the hope he’ll read it with pride one day.
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I’ve done the same with some of my books.
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Fantastic statement, dear Don… you should see our library! That’s my kids world (and mine as well), after music, actually. Hugs and keep up the good writing :-)claudine
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Thanks for your kind words.
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Please check out this post from my author blog.
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BTW, Lillie’s book is available from Amazon:
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Thanks, Chris. I appreciate the plug for Lillie. She is quite the salesman and even has her own YouTube channel.
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Good for her 👍😃
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This is lovely and inspiring, Don. Kudos to you and your daughter.
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Thanks, Staci
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How lovely, Don. I also write with my son, Michael. We also published when he was 10 years old.
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That’s great to hear, Robbie.
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Great post, Don. What a thrill it must be to have a child follow in your talented footsteps.
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Thanks, John. I expect her to spring past me sometime soon. She always sells more books at author signings than I do because she’s much cuter.
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She sure is.
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An uplifting post Don. You have enriched the world by encouraging and nurturing such talent.
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Thank you so much.
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Thanks for sharing this, Anna
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I have been writing a short story for each of my eight grandchildren and one great-grandchild. It is a gift that tells them a little about me in story form. I love doing it and look forward to the day I will give them each their own book.
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Very nice.
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Your daughter is so sweet. It is wonderful that you are encouraging her to write. How special to be able to go to book signings together. All the best to both of you. xo
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Thanks, Darlene.
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Beautiful legacy, Don… A wonderful way to share the love of reading and writing with our children! Thanks for inspiring us all.
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Don – you nailed it with this post. I love what you and your daughter have and I wish more parents spent this kind of time with their children. Keep being a positive source of inspiration to this world.
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Thanks Thomas.
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Love this and congrats to your lovely daughter. @sheilamgood at Cow Pasture Chronicles
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Thanks you so much.
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Don, this is just wonderful. You have given your daughter the best legacy, and already you are seeing and feeling the rewards. Certainly she is. Thank you for this post and sharing a very special message,
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You’re welcome. Thanks for the kind words
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A pleasure, Don.
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Even when you don’t have children, a book is still a legacy. It helps you live after the biological demise.
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Very true.
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I remember when I was little I told my teacher I wanted to be an author. Now lots of years later I write blogs and short stories but I hope to write books too
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That’s a great realization of your goal.
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